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My life as a Dominant, runs very deep. Deeply rooted at my core is the hedonist that craves all life has to offer. The definition of hedonist is a person who believes that the pursuit of pleasure is the most important principle in determining morality of a potential course of action, Beit: sex, rock and roll or even the simplest action of eating a gourmet meal and savoring every bite. i know what i want from life, life itself. I go out and get what I want. I take charge when in a relationship dynamic. I do not sugar coat. i also relate this to being Dominant in life on the count of the pursuit, itself. The goal of this is knowledge and experience. However, with great knowledge comes great responsibility and with proper intelligence, one can become unstoppable in their pursuit of happiness.

Hello all,

I thought i would give you all a little insight into my sensual side. What i have already told you all was that i am only sensual when i am in a loving and committed relationship and trust is earned.

My first thing I look for in a sensual dynamic is compatibility. If i don't mess well with you it's not going to be that sensual.

When i am the most comfortable and when i can relax around someone, lends more of a chance that, if i like someone, there is a chance that things could get sensual. sensualness for me is a time where, when caught up in the moment of sensualness and passion, i check in with myself and utilize all my senses, when im in a mood of bliss and sensuality. Like i have said in my last Blog, I am a hedonist when it comes to life itself.

So when it comes to rose peddles being strown all over the bed and incents burning, is right up my alley.

As I have previously stated in my last blog, I do have a submissive side. However, I am mainly Dominant. So, with that being said, I only sub for my lovers. I cleanly define what I mean by lovers in my next Blog.

When it comes to me being submissive in the bedroom, I (1. only allow my lovers, whom i am in a committed loving trusting relationship with and have already established and upkeeps open communication with (2. I never submit during bdsm play or kink play until proper "safewords" or phrases have been talked over and are agreed upon. (3. I never submit to anyone until all parties involved have understood my limits and boundaries when it comes to comfortability, trust and respects my boundaries and insecurities.

Submissive activities I enjoy in the bedroom, is more along the lines of sensual submission, Where the Dominance is more caring and sweeter and sensual, than more hardcore Dominance. However, when trust is earned, I love to be manhandled, But mostly love sensual massages, body caresses and Sensual touch. Though, I do admit when I get Overly turned on, thing can take a more "Power Bottom" dynamic, If the situation feels right. anyone is more than welcome to ask during live chat or by messaging me.

When it comes to everyday life, I am Dominant which means, in relationships I am usually the one who has the final say on discission making. now, I'm very open to hearing ideas but in the end, I usually have the last word. But, At the end of the day when the evening starts winding down, I do allow myself to being more open to my submissive side. Actually, it's more like a passive side. lol.

When it comes to the professional Services I offer, please ask me about the dynamics and prices of these following services I offer. Those Professional submissive services are as follows:

Dollification- Suggest an outfit, jewelry, lingerie, accessories or Role play character look. for the day or week.
Be my Dollmaster for a Day. Let your ideas of what i would look like if i was your Girlfriend for a day, 3 days or a week, take over. Dont know what Dollification is?? Just ask and i will educate as we go along.

Bondage play- Come let me show you the knots i know and i will let you see me tie myself up in the knot of your choice for credits. Got an idea for a knot you would like to see if i can do? ask and we can see if we can come up with a good rope bondage scene for a day.

Sensual Domination. Taken from what you know about how i work as a sub, from what you read above, Sensually take the metaphorical wheel from me, as I am Mostly Dominant in my day to day life, I do like to relinquish control to that special person I trust and feel connected too. Anyone that would like to romantically Dominate me is more than welcome to. I do have a separate price list for these special occasions, Plz. ask about these and or check the upcoming credit list in my bio for submissive contest days and on my random submissive feeling days.

Lastly, as of activities I enjoy when it comes to me being submissive in the bedroom are:

1. Body worship, mainly muscles while in Dominance submission and sensual submission
2. Dirty talk, soft to hardcore depending on mood (can vary depending on mood. Plz ask.
3 Dominance bondage
4. Bondage Rope art
5. being teased with words
6. exhibitionism when it comes to submissive sex positions
7. I love using all my senses and taking my time, when caught up in the moment when it comes to making love as a submissive. I guess a good term for me is a hedonistic submissive.

Hope this give much more insight as to who i am when it comes to my role as a submissive.

Hello and salutations to all my adoring fans,

Tonight, I wanted to write about myself so that those who are interested in getting to know who I am, when it comes to Kink and what I do when it comes to my life as a Dominatrix. However, before we are to get into that, i feel it's best to come out and talk about my orientation and gender. I am a Proud Transgender female. I really dislike the term " tranny". I am transgender which means, I was born male and now, since my Gender Confirming Surgery in 2018 and finishing in 2019. I am open for questions about this subject as well, just be respectful.

As for my sexual orientation I am a Pansexual/Demisexual. Pansexual means that when it comes to sexual attraction, I do not care about the gender of the other person. As a Demisexual I only feel sexual attractions to those I feel close too and trust is earned.

I consider myself polyamorous which means that i can balance multiple relationships outside of my primary relationship. I am married to my wonderful wife; I do still form bonds with others.

In the BDSM community I am a Mistress, which means i Take on duties as a Dungeon Monitor. Dungeon Monitors have specific knowledge of a lot of kinks and makes sure everyone is playing safe and over watches all the events in the dungeon. As a Mistress, I do take on submissive applicants who wish to pursue a kink journey into Sensual Domination. As a Mistress I am Dominant, however, if strong enough bond is built i do switch to letting my guard down and become submissive, but only once lover status is achieved.

As a Kinkster I enjoy a lot of bondage rope art and Dominance Bondage. I also find myself getting into electricity play, which i have been dying to use my new electric wand on myself and others. who knows, I may decide to use it in an up-coming show. lol.

Lastly, I am really into glow in the dark merch. Anything that glows under black light or glows in the dark, is right up my ally. lol.

Yep, that's right, you heard it right. I just got access to a new perk on flirt. The Flirt Phone. It's basically a way for me to hook up my cell phone up to the website so many of my fans can have that extra peek into my more personal life.

So, don't worry there is still a way to keep up with me when I am offline or online in private. Thanks to all of my adoring fans, I now can have more of a personal connection with my friends and fans on here. So, click on the flirt phone in my bio and lets chat....

Hello all,

First want to reach out to my fans and Thank them for helping me with one of my first goals I wanted to achieve when I first started camming. Thank you all soooo much, for I have now made it to FRESHMAN STATUS!!! YAY!

Now I have the opportunity to Add those of you who are My BIGGEST fans! not only will you now be able to be added to my sub domain Evie Slayter Fan Club, but you will also be given a specialized colored font, identifying you as a Top Fan. The perks dont just stop there, From my fan page you will be able to get 5% discounts on my shows and VODs.

So with that being said July is the month of big events for the yearly Summit. I really want to hit more goals so Plz come in and chat and get to know me a little bit more, for the closer we connect, the better Mine and your perks expand.

Thank you all again for getting me closer to all my goals and I really enjoy our time together and hope to have more exciting nights together! Hope to see you soon!